5 days ago I made a mistake and got a massage from a backpage escort. She gave me a handjob and used a toy wrapped with a condom to penetrate me anally. I am a heterosexual male and this was my first time being penetrated. I was not relaxed during this process and it appeared that she was rather rough with the anal. Two times I had a sharp piercing pain occur. This was the first time I ejaculated in a month and in addition to the prostate massage it was the most I have ever released.
I talked to experts on other forums and they said that this contact was no risk for any STDs/STIs. I have an appointment with my doctor so I can do blood work to be sure.
I tried to do research about the risks involving anal with a toy but I couldn't find any information. My particular symptoms are my perineum is sore, my testicles are achy, my anal opening sometimes feels raw, and my urethra is irritated. I am peeing without pain, ejaculating without pain, and I have no blood or discharge from either my penis nor my anus.
When I got home I washed my genital area several times over the next 48 hrs with various soaps. I am wondering if this irritated my urethra or I possibly got a UTI somehow? However with the perineum pain, testicle pain, and raw anal opening I am wondering if this is bruised damage from the anal and I will heal soon or if something more serious (an infection or internal damage) occurred. Like I said I tried to look everywhere and I couldn't find information regarding my specific symptoms. Is the pain in the perineum connected to my pain in my testicles? Could this be linked to the urethra as well? Can I get a UTI simply from an anal toy with a condom rubbing against my prostate? Or a UTI from washing my penis too much?
I am worried sick that something serious has happened and it would mean a lot to me to hear some advice.